Thursday, April 5, 2018

“Let them drive the process….”


by Erik Ormberg


Five senior parents reflect on the future planning process


In early April the MHS Guidance office invited junior parents to hear from a panel of five senior parents as they shared thoughts on the future planning process. After two future planning events, two visits to classrooms and an upcoming college fair it was time for the guidance counselors to step aside, stop talking and let the parents in the trenches shares some insights, anecdotes and trade secrets.

We had a nice mix of “landing” spots. Two of the parents had kids committed to Providence College, two more were on the fence, one with Villanova and one with Temple and a final speaker’s child was going to decide between Loyola, Maryland or High Point University. The event was moderated by third-year guidance counselor, Kathy Mahoney.

Guidance department head, Stephanie Worthley kicked things off by welcoming the crowd of about forty and quickly turned things over to the panel.

Some general takeaways:
  • Tremendous stock was put in visiting colleges while school was in session and not during the quieter summer months.
  • Get a jump on essay writing and try to complete the common application over the summer.
  • Respect where each individual kid is in the process and allow a conversation to be had, or a spreadsheet designed or an essay assignment “outsourced” to a tutor.
  • Give the college admissions tests (ACT/SAT) their due diligence, but don’t sign up to take them more than 2 or 3 times.
  • Letting the students drive the process.
That last takeaway was a common thread that tied the entire morning together. As parents of seniors began the process they were intent on guiding their child and not becoming an overbearing presence amid the challenging timeframe of future planning with it’s written and unwritten deadlines.

One parent shared how their family began the process. The student was asked to come up with twenty schools based on interest. That list was then whittled down after a few visits and further research. She went on to explain that as a junior her son “THOUGHT” he wanted to go far from home, but as the sense of urgency became more real and vivid, he tended to look at schools closer to home.

At the end of the day is was clear to the audience that these five parents were not looking to relive a visceral experience through their children. A sense of individual pride permeated the discussion. And that pride wasn’t based on competitiveness or winning any specific brass ring. The pride was based on the fact that each parent knew their child had great options ahead of them.

And the driving force behind that? They let their child drive the process.

Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Sophomore Parent Night Recap

by Julia St. Jean

March 22, 2018 was the first annual Sophomore Parent Night run by the Guidance Department. The evening was filled with guidance-related information for sophomores, including a thorough junior year timeline, an overview of the sophomore guidance curriculum, an emphasis on the importance of life balance, an introduction into college and career readiness tools, and much more. In case you missed it, here are some takeaways from Stephanie Worthley, Russell Becker, Kathy Mahoney, Erik Ormberg, and Amanda Padden!

Sophomore Curriculum
During sophomore year, the Guidance Department connects with the entire sophomore class in classrooms about relevant topics to keep on their radar. During this interaction, counselors address and define high school transcripts, GPA and graduation requirements. Counselors also introduce Naviance (our online college and career platform) and it’s particular career exploration tools, including a Career Interests Profiler, which asks students a series of questions in order to determine which careers may be good fits as well as help students understand and set up resumes. These classroom visits get the process started in thinking about postgraduate plans as they relate to careers and best preparing students for their futures.

What Can Sophomores Do Now?
  • Attend the TEC College Fair at Westwood High School, which will be held on Wednesday, March 28, from 6:30-8:30
  • Career Speakers are coming to Medfield High! Individuals from different professions, including a Pediatric Nurse, Psychologist, Engineer, Sports Broadcaster, ESPN Talent Producer, Business Professional, and Teacher, are coming to visit the school to discuss the ins and outs of their particular career path.
Resources for Sophomores with Amanda Padden and Kathy Mahoney

In this breakout session, counselors drove home the importance of viewing sophomore year as a time of exploration and curiosity- what are your strengths and interests? How can you complement these through various types of involvement and conversations? We then walked through different available resources that help to support that exploration, including Naviance and Big Future- particularly which careers may be a good fit, how to get there, and what courses may be helpful to take.

Balance with Erik Ormberg and Russell Becker

Guidance Counselor Erik Ormberg and Adjustment Counselor Russell Becker focused on the importance of balance for high school students, encouraged families to discuss how they define success and how to accept and learn from stumbles along the way. They also spoke about mental health statistics in the greater Boston area and different mental health resources available to students and families, including speaking with our School Adjustment Counselor and reaching out to the Interface Helpline at 1-888-244-6843, which helps to connect individuals to therapists in the area.

Breakout Sessions: 
Guide to Postsecondary Planning for Students with Disabilities with Kathy Mahoney
Alternative Future Plans with Amanda Padden
Postgraduate Planning for Artists, Athletes, and Musicians with Erik Ormberg

There is an academic, educational, and career path for each student. While the process may feel daunting (which is very normal!) it is also incredibly exciting. Part of this juxtaposition of feelings is the hefty amount of options for students: what support services are available? What are my options once I receive a high school diploma? What if my college application requires a portfolio? These are all great (and common!) questions. As a Guidance Department, and school, there are resources, and people, here to help, and to hear, your questions, goals, and dreams, which will be unique and subjective for each student. Come visit us in Guidance to speak more about these topics!

Thursday, February 8, 2018

GAP Year Programs

by Amanda Padden

       On Friday, February 2nd, Gap year representatives from Dynamy Internship Year, EF Gap Year, Rustic Pathways, and City Year spoke with interested 10th-12th grade students and their parents. A Gap year is an "experiential semester or year typically taken between high school and college (or whatever your future plan may be) in order to deepen practical, professional, and personal awareness." Below you can find a summary of what each of the programs has to offer.

Dynamy: This program provides students an opportunity to explore potential careers and learn to live independently. Students live in Dynamy provided apartments in Worcester with other Dynamy students and attend their internship site roughly 28 hours a week. 200+ internships are offered, in careers a such as animal care, business, film, radio, and teaching - there’s something for everyone. Depending upon the whether students choose the full year or semester option, students will have between one and three internships. Mondays are workshop days where students learn about communication, independent living, and professional skills. They also have a chance to participate in college seminars offered through Clark University and earn up to 12 college credits. College counseling is available as well.

At the beginning of the program, students spend a week in Maine on an outdoor adventure retreat where they bond with staff and other students before the Gap year begins. Dynamy offers need based financial aid and has rolling admission throughout a student’s senior year until spots are filled.They also offer tours and informational interviews. Check out their website at https://www.dynamy.org/internship-year/.


EF Gap Year: EF is the same company that Medfield uses for its China and Italy trips. EF Gap Year offers students a chance to travel, learn or continue a world language, participate in community service, and intern in a field of interest. The program starts with an orientation at a castle in London (seriously!) where students get to know their cohort of Gap year students. As part of the orientation they will travel on a welcome tour to London, Amsterdam, Paris, Rome and Barcelona. After this, students will spend six weeks taking language courses at one of EF’s seven language schools in cities like Paris, Barcelona, Tamarindo, and Tokyo while staying with a host family. Next, students will participate in a six-week service learning project in one of six international destinations like the Dominican Republic, Nepal, Peru or Tanzania. Students return home for the holidays and have the option to attend a college application seminar.

When they return from break, students travel on a three week cultural immersion tour in Australia and New Zealand. After that students will start their business internship (offered in eleven international cities) where they will live with another EF Gap year student. The Gap Year ends with a Leadership Academy at the castle in London where students learn leadership skills followed by a tour of Scotland and Ireland where they practice those skills.

If students choose to participate for one semester they will only choose two of three options (service, language, internship) and will not travel to Australia and New Zealand. Applications are rolling until May 31st or until spots fill up. Students can enroll as early as their junior year, but most apply during senior year. https://www.ef.edu/pg/gap-year-abroad/


Rustic Pathways: This program offers students an opportunity to travel abroad and participate in community service. Students pick a region of interest and will travel to various countries within that region while participating in different service projects. There are typically fifteen students in a group, two program leaders, and local guides in each destination. Examples of programs are Spanish Immersion and Service and South Pacific Service and Ocean Skills.

Other specialized programs like “Come with Nothing” offers an experience where students bring one carry on bag and five items and have to shop for clothes and other supplies at a local market to sustain them throughout the trip. Students will live, work, and participate in community service.

Dates vary depending on the program destination. Rustic Pathways also offers summer programs if students do not want to participate during the academic year. Scholarships are offered and program applications deadlines vary. Check out their website at https://rusticpathways.com/


City Year: This program is for students interested in dedicating a year of service to students who are at risk of dropping out of school. City Year volunteers focus on student attendance, behavior, and the their ability to access the curriculum. City Year volunteers are assigned to a classroom where there is a primary teacher. Volunteers build relationships with the students in the classroom who are most at risk. Volunteers will be trained for one month before they are assigned to a site. Volunteers can choose to live at home or be assigned to a site in another US city and live in an apartment. Volunteers receive a stipend of roughly $630 every two weeks and can apply through City Year for food stamps to pay for groceries. Volunteers are in the classroom Mondays through Thursdays and spend Fridays with their City Year cohort.

Upon completion of the program, volunteers earn a financial award called the Segal Education Award of roughly $6,000 which can be used to pay off college debt or be put toward future schooling. City Year partners with colleges like Wheelock and Bentley which offer students incredible financial aid awards to City year alums. The application process includes talking with a recruiter, filling out an application, and having an interview. There are various deadlines throughout a student’s senior year with the next deadline coming up in early March, 2018. This is a well known program that has a huge alumni network. Many graduates of City Year are later hired by City year alums. This is a great opportunity for students interested in careers in education, helping professions, and working with youth. https://www.cityyear.org/


       Guidance counselors are available to work individually with students on the Gap year application process. See your counselor if you are interested in a Gap year or stop by the guidance office to explore the brochures. We want students to know that college is not the only option when it comes to future planning. As always, the guidance counselors look forward to helping students find a future plan that is both exciting and a great match for their skills and interests.

Tuesday, January 16, 2018

Welcome Ms. St. Jean



We would like to congratulate Mrs. Anne Lodge on the birth of her baby boy, Thomas Edward Lodge! While Mrs. Lodge is out on her maternity leave, we would like to welcome Ms. Julia St. Jean to the MHS Guidance Department. Ms. St. Jean is a graduate of Boston College and was a Mater's Level Research Assistant at Northwestern University. Most recently, Ms. St. Jean has been working as a Guidance Counselor at Bishop Fenwick High School. We are excited to have Ms. St. Jean join our department. Please welcome Ms. St. Jean to MHS!

Thursday, December 21, 2017

Teen Depression and Suicide Linked to Smartphone Use


by Kathy Mahoney

NPR recently published a story about the dangerous connection between smartphones, depression, and suicide rates in teens. Research has shown a sharp increase in depression symptoms, suicide risk factors, and suicide rates in teens since 2012, coinciding with the time smartphones became popular.

The study found that teens who spend five or more hours a day on their phones are 71% more likely to have one risk factor for suicide. The amount of screen time, no matter the content, correlated to higher rates of depression.

The author of the study stated that “three hours a day and beyond is where you saw the more pronounced increase in those who had at least one suicide risk factor."

Recommendations for parents included limiting use to two hours per day or less. When not using smartphones, teens should be engaging in activities that promote mental health, such as exercising, seeing friends and family face to face, sleeping, and getting outside. Furthermore, the author reports that the ideal age that a teen should get a smartphone is 14, when they enter high school. Studies show that younger teens may be more vulnerable to the demands of social media.

To read the article in full, click here.

Thursday, October 19, 2017

Finsta! What is it?


by Stephanie Worthley

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It's not just Instagram and Snapchat teenagers are using to express themselves. More and more teenagers are creating a Finsta - a fake Instagram account. Because Instagram now allows users to create and toggle quickly between multiple accounts, teens starting creating Finsta accounts in addition to their Instagram account. Why would someone create a Finsta account? Basically, teenagers are using their Finsta accounts to hide posts from their parents, teachers, employers, coaches, and even other peers. 

Finsta is a place where teenagers can be themselves outside of the filter-driven, perfect-photo culture of Instagram. While most teenagers often post to Instagram to gather a high number of likes and quick compliments, on Finsta, it is understood that likes, perfect photos, and comments are not the goal. Instead, many can post photos to express their real feelings, post imperfect photos, and share feelings that they may not always feel comfortable sharing in public. However, this is a place where teenagers are showing off pictures of illegal activities, such as drinking, drugs, parties, or sexual pictures - pictures that they would never post in a more public Instagram account (like the account their parents and family members are following). Finsta accounts are created to throw parents off of the teenagers digital path. Finsta accounts usually have fewer followers and engage with only a close circle of friends.

Here are some Finsta Realities:
  • Most teenage have a Finsta (although they will deny, deny, deny); while teenage girls dominate the space, boys are also active despite playing a less active role. Most teens (regardless of frequency of use) keep a Finsta account to remain privy to social hierarchy and look out for their own eventual targeting by other users.
  • It is more common to have a Finsta, than to not have a Finsta. Why? The platform allows teens to celebrate their social improprieties despite articulating or simulating remorse to parents and school officials. In other words, they are able to maintain a “sorry, I’m not sorry” persona on social media, while articulating the opposite in the public setting.
  • Although Finstas may begin with good intentions, most ultimately digress into a conduit for cyber aggression, or fan the flames of social drama in the form of likes, comments and regrams.
  • Finstas that create mental, social or emotional trauma are subject to school-related discipline if and when they eventually bleed into and disrupt the school learning environment. The lines of outside bullying and school have become increasingly blurred by social media platforms.
  • Upon discovery, teens easily (and alarmingly) convince parents the Finsta is “only a joke” or “actually never used”, and quickly change their handle (name) to advance the premise that it has been deleted. Rarely, if ever, do they actually delete their Finsta.
Ask your son or daughter to show you their Finsta account. It may be difficult to find it, depending on the account name and the photo that is used to create the profile picture.

Resources:
https://www.today.com/parents/parents-you-know-about-instagram-do-you-know-finsta-t117541

https://securingtomorrow.mcafee.com/consumer/family-safety/finsta-parents-know-teens-fake-instagram-accounts/

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/what-the-finsta-the-darker-world-of-teenagers-and_us_57eb9e03e4b07f20daa0fefb